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50 Questions to Record a Life Story

Good questions open up stories you'd never otherwise recall. Use them for a conversation with a loved one or for yourself.

On childhood and roots

Where did you grow up? What home do you remember? Who were your parents? What childhood story comes to mind first? What did you love to eat as a child?

On choices and the path taken

How did you choose your profession? What decision changed your life? What did you dream of at twenty? What are you proudest of? What was the hardest?

On values and love

Who do you consider the most important people in your life? What would you want to teach your grandchildren? What advice would you give your younger self? What is happiness to you?

How to lead the conversation

Don't turn the talk into an interrogation: ask one question at a time and don't rush the answers. The most precious things often surface in the pauses and the tangents, so let the conversation flow freely. A few warm meetings are better than one long questionnaire.

  • On childhood and roots.
  • On choices and the path of life.
  • On values, people, and love.
  • Record the answers as audio, to keep the intonation.

Frequently asked questions

My loved one is shy and gives short answers. What should I do?
Start with easy questions about childhood and favorite things, and don't rush; the stories usually unfold gradually.
Should I record in text or audio?
Audio is better; it preserves the intonation and the way of speaking; you can transcribe it later.

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