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How to Build a Family Tree: A Step-by-Step Guide

Building a family tree is easier than it seems if you go step by step — from yourself deeper into the generations, gradually gathering names, dates and stories.

Step 1. Start with yourself and those close to you

Write down your nearest relatives: parents, grandparents, spouse, children. This is the foundation from which the tree grows upward — toward ancestors — and outward — toward the family's branches. Don't try to cover everything at once.

Step 2. Gather the data

Ask your older relatives while you still can: names, years of life, what they did for work, where they came from. Look into documents, old photos and letters. Every detail is a brick in the tree to come.

Step 3. Build the connections

In Pomni, add relatives to a person right inside the tree: father, mother, spouse, son, daughter. They automatically fall into place by generation, and the connections are drawn as lines. Where there's a memory page, the node leads to it.

Step 4. Add to it and share

A tree lives and grows: add new relatives, stories and photos. Invite your family — everyone has something of their own. The tree can be opened to the family or locked with a password.

  • From yourself to ancestors and branches.
  • Ask the elders while there's still time.
  • Connections: father/mother/spouse/children.
  • Add to it and invite your family.

Frequently asked questions

Which generation should I start with?
With yourself or a recently departed loved one, gradually moving up to parents and grandparents.
What if there's little data about ancestors?
Start with what you have and add to it over time — by asking relatives and going through the family archive.

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